Love Language Child - Parker Counseling Services

What is My Child’s Love Language?

You love your child, right? But do they truly feel it? Everyone, including your child, needs to feel loved and heard. According to Dr. Gary Chapman of the New York Times Bestseller “The 5 Love Languages,” the best way for your child to feel loved and heard is by speaking their natural love language. When they are secure in their sense of love then they will feel safe and assured, therefore allowing them to navigate childhood with confidence.

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Which statement best describes you?

I like to receive hugs from my friends daily.

I need words of affirmation daily.

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Which statement best describes you?

I feel loved when I am told how much I am appreciated.

I feel appreciated when a person does a task I have requested.

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Which statement best describes you?

Mini candy bars given by my teacher are always special to me.

I feel good when my teacher stands near me when greeting me.

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Which statement best describes you?

I like to be told that I am appreciated.

I like for a person to look at me when we are talking.

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Which statement best describes you?

I enjoy when my teacher gives me a high‐five or pat on the back in the hallway.

Receiving a gift for no special reason excites me.

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Which statement best describes you?

I enjoy extended trips with someone who is special to me.

I like knowing loved ones are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks.

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Which statement best describes you?

I appreciate it when someone remembers special days with a gift.

I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me.

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Which statement best describes you?

I feel loved when a person helps me with my chores.

I know a person is thinking of me when he or she gives me a gift.

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Which statement best describes you?

I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with a special gift.

I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with meaningful words.

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Which statement best describes you?

I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me undivided attention.

I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone helps me with a task.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

Don’t worry I will pick you up on time.

Let’s spend the day doing whatever you want to do.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

How did you know how to do that? You are brilliant!

I can’t wait to give you your present!

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

I always like doing stuff with you.

You are so huggable.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

What would you like for your birthday?

We can pick up your friend on the way to the movie.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

Would you like for me to scratch your back?

You can do it, don’t give up.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

I cleaned up your room for you.

Let’s play a game together.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

Wow! You did it!

Check under your bed for a special present.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

You are fun to hang out with.

I’ll race you!

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

I mad your favorite food.

I checked your homework, and it looks great!

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

I am going to give you a big hug.

You are a great kid!

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

You can invite your friends.

Let’s go to your favorite restaurant.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

You did an amazing job!

You have earned a special surprise.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

Let’s watch TV together.

Tag you are it!

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

I have a surprise for you.

We can make something really cool.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

Give me a kiss.

You are the best.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

Would you help me cook dinner?

I like going to fun places with you.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

You are so smart.

Have you made your Christmas list?

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

Let’s go to the movies!

Give me a high five!

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

I have a special birthday present for you.

I will help you with that project.

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Ask your child which of these statements they would prefer to hear?

You are awesome!

Give me a hug.

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