The Hidden Harm of Toxic Positivity: Why “Good Vibes Only” Isn’t Always Good Have you ever been told to “just stay positive” when you were struggling? If so, you’ve experienced toxic positivity—this idea that we should always be happy, no matter what. While positivity can be a powerful tool, forcing ourselves (or others) to be…
Are They Just Lucky? Or Is It Mindset? How Scarcity, Abundance, and Negative Bias Shape Your Reality Have you ever looked at someone else’s life and thought, They’re just so lucky? Maybe they always seem to be in the right place at the right time. Or they land amazing opportunities effortlessly or they are the…
Guilt vs. Shame – Understanding the Difference and Reclaiming Your Worth What is the difference between guilt and shame? Have you ever made a mistake and thought, I shouldn’t have done that? That’s guilt. But what about the times you’ve thought, I’m such a terrible person? That’s shame. There’s a big difference between the two,…
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins – A Therapist’s Review Have you ever found yourself exhausted from trying to manage other people’s reactions, behaviors, or feelings? If so, Mel Robbins’ latest book, The Let Them Theory, offers a simple but profound perspective shift that can bring you relief. As a therapist, I see people…
Are You a Dog or Cat When It Comes to Boundaries Are you a dog or a cat when it comes to how you set boundaries? I want you to imagine two very different animals: a dog and a cat. The dog is loving, eager, and always by your side, ready to please. If you…
Adult ADHD and How Do You Thrive With It Have you ever felt like your brain is running a marathon while everyone else is walking? Do you struggle to focus, stay organized, or finish tasks, no matter how hard you try? If so, you might have Adult ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder)—and you’re not alone. Many adults…
Feeling Bullied by Politics? Take Back Your Peace and Power Have you felt overwhelmed, exhausted, or even bullied by politics in today’s climate? You’re not alone. Every day, it seems like the news, social media, and even personal conversations are filled with tension, division, and strong opinions. It can feel like you’re constantly being pushed…
Feeling Alone? Here’s How to Find Love Where It Matters Most Valentine’s Day can be a beautiful celebration of love, but for many, it is a painful reminder of loneliness. If you’re feeling alone, I want to talk to you—not as just another voice on the internet, but as someone who truly understands. Loneliness is…
Feeling Emotionally Stuck Doesn’t Mean You’re Broken Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you just can’t move forward? Maybe there’s something from your past that keeps coming up, or you find yourself reacting in ways you don’t fully understand. If this sounds familiar, I want you to know one thing:…
The Surprising Truth About People Pleasing If you’re someone who struggles with people-pleasing, chances are you’ve spent a lot of your life taking responsibility for other people’s feelings, needs, and actions. It might feel like second nature to smooth things over, keep the peace, or ensure everyone else is happy—even when it costs you. You…